Do-it-yourself books can make for useful reading and background, but it can be extremely expensive to change or unwind a poorly done DIY divorce. Cleaning up a mess is much more expensive than hiring a lawyer initially. You know the old saying “An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure.”
While there are cases where it can work out well, the risk that the settlement is unfair is great, and cleaning up the mess is a costly affair. Although we understand that divorce is not a cheap process, it is important to do it right the first time.
Asking for your ex to cover the cost of your medical insurance may be a part of your divorce settlement, and you are entitled to COBRA insurance if you were covered by insurance while you were married. Medical insurance can be a big cost to divorced couples – make sure you ask your lawyer about ways to protect yourself.
We can help. The court requires a full disclosure of assets, and that means nothing is allowed to be hidden. That is called fraud and Judges hate liars and cheaters. Write a list of anything you think your ex-spouse might be hiding. We will work hard to make sure you are treated fairly and with respect.
The toughest cases of hiding assets involve self employed business owners who deal in cash. How do you account for every dollar? Is it worth it? Why am I struggling so much and my ex has so much money? We can require full disclosure and if we need, we will take depositions to see if your ex is hiding assets. No one can say the other person won’t lie, but if they do and are exposed, the courts are very helpful in correcting fraud.
People forget or don’t realize that when they file for divorce, they are under the immediate control of the court. We can get orders to help minimize hiding and fraud.
Oregon State considers divorce as “no fault.” That means that as far as the court is concerned, it is irrelevant if your spouse cheated on you and ran away with your best friend. When a court looks at your case, the Judge will make a determination on spousal support by looking at many factors including the length of the marriage, the age, health and earning capacity of each party. These are just a few considerations. There are many more.
There is no law that guarantee that you will receive spousal support. There is a law that allows spousal support under various circumstances. If the court determines that spousal support is appropriate, the Judge will set it at a level and duration that will encourage each party to become independent of each other as soon as that is reasonably possible.
In all spousal support cases, the court will try to make the financial situation “not too disproportionate from that which you enjoyed during the marriage.”
That means that even if your spouse earned $50,000 while you stayed at home and cared for the kids, you can expect a judgment that aims to make both your lifestyles similar.
The court will want you to become independent as soon as possible, but factors such as age, health, education, absence from the workforce, needs of the children, and length of the marriage will assist the court in making its decision.
Without question, on the issues of spousal support, you need an attorney.
It is also important to know that the amount of spousal support, like child support, can change if circumstances change, like a raise, or loss of a job etc.
There are many parts to most divorce settlements, and personal property division is just one element. The easiest (and by far the cheapest) way is to hire an appraiser who can value the property of each person. With an appraisal of values a division of property is far easier. Neither party feels that they are getting ripped off. The courts do not like to decide who gets the CDs and who gets which DVD, so a good attorney will encourage you and your ex to settle minor property issues outside of court. An attorney can also help you understand the decisions that need to be made when dividing your personal property. It is almost always cheaper to pay an appraiser a few hundred dollars than it is to spend time, money and energy debating the division of personal property.